If you are afraid of everything, you will not succeed in anything🙏
"My dearest, stop looking and asking for your Prince Charming. No boy will come riding on a white horse to save you from your peril up in your tower. It’s no use to have a self-pity party and wait for your happily-ever-after. Fairytales aren’t meant to come breathing out of book pages. There’s no “once upon a time” that drags on to tell a story of a love between two lovers who overcame great dangers. Stop romanticizing Sleeping Beauty and wake up on your own. Don’t let just any guy kiss you. If you have to dress up and plaster a different persona for him to like you, drown the Cinderella and Ariel in you. He’s not worth the trouble because at the end of the night, when the makeup isn’t plastered on your face and you’re lying on your bed crying, he has to know that this is you - not some dolled up version of you. Don’t fall for a pretty face and a nice smile. There’s more to guys than the way the sun makes their eyes glow and the butterflies you get from their smiles. My dearest, stop searching for a perfect guy. You’ll never find him. Just like you, guys are flawed. Stop romanticizing them. In some way or another, they are bruised, hurt, and broken. You might see stars in their eyes, but know they also have seen too much of this messed up world. You might see flowers on their skin, but understand they have fallen down before and been marked with scratches from evening beasts. There’s no beauty in pain. There’s no perfection in a human being. My dearest, everyone is flawed. Find someone who not only complements your broken pieces, but also keeps them from breaking apart even further. Even if that means he gets hurt in the process."
- this is no fairytale (NJ.)
"A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you."
- Elbert Hubbard (via observando)
Today my prof asked me, “if you’re given another chance, will you do better?”
I said yes; but I was thinking, what second chance?
"我不喜欢流着眼泪退，我想要含着眼泪进。” - 韩磊
( While doing work)
I was telling my friend this the other day. People say you do not compare your friends with others; but i beg to differ. You need to compare.
You need to compare to know that who are worthy and who are really not. You need to compare to know who really cares and who really do not. You need to compare to see who loves you more and who is right for you.
This semester’s really a little too much for me to handle. I have not felt so stressed up for the longest time. But i guess all these stress are worth it :)
I think I know myself a little better now. I am too reliant for my own good. People are there for me but After-all, some things i just have to go through and endure it myself.
Perks of 2014: i get to meet so many inspiring, young and nice people. It’s always nice to be around these nice people. They inspired a lot in a way and another. Also, I felt that I’ve gotten closer to my old friends. I’m glad that I ‘m nicer to them now and is willing to give so much more!
What a blessing☺️
( Ok, back to do my shit report).